Why worthiness is your birthright and not something to be earned
This post will explain how our brains overcomplicate feeling worthy and how results don’t equate to worth.
“Worthiness is your birthright. Not something you have to earn.”
Isn’t such a GIFT to be really SEEN in your natural element without hiding, striving, or proving?
On a call the other day, it was brought up that a client was fully ‘seen’ and complimented by someone for something that’s so innate to her.
What’s interesting is the less forcing and striving we do the more fully we show up as our highest self, effortlessly.
Why? Because we’re not TRYING to be something, we just ARE.
There’s a presence.
A peace.
A knowing.
People FEEL that AND it’s ENOUGH.
But, it’s counterintuitive to what we’re taught:
To strive
Force
Hustle
Exhaust
Deplete
But, full on creativity and connection can’t be at its peak intimacy without full on presence.
That’s where innovation is bred.
Peace lives.
Love is abundant.
Oftentimes, letting go and making space for rest and play bring up so much resistance because ‘who will we become’ when we’re not achieving & performing?
Lazy?
A permanent procrastinator?
Someone unmotivated for life?
Our brains make this DRAMATIC.
And show us our deepest, most scary work: divorcing our worth from our results.
If your worth as a parent is attached to how well your kid behaves…this is the work.
If your worth is based on how well your partner does/doesn’t speak your love language 24/7…this is the work.
If your worth as a woman is attached to your weight, size, age, marital status…this is the work.
Worthiness is your birthright. Not something you have to earn.
If you’re ready to detach your worth from your external results, let’s set up a consult call to discuss 1-on-1 high level coaching. Your worth will be restored, and the results will happen as a natural byproduct of this realignment.
Healing self sabotaging behaviors
ABOUT THE AUTHOR I’m Meg Smithson and I remember vividly the heartache, distress, and agony that self sabotaging behaviors caused me. Between eating disorders, anxiety, major self doubt, and constant imbalance, I couldn’t seem to live the fulfilling life I imagined.
If you are currently dealing with this, I get it & know exactly how you feel.
I spent a decade of heartache striving to fit the elusive mold of what mainstream considered “perfect” all while trying to figure out why I was put on this earth.
I learned to listen to what I needed…
…not what others expected of me. Gradually, I felt freedom like I had never imagined I could.
What does a relationship coach do?
Now, I teach women to find that freedom, too, by helping them create the relationship that they really want, faster by first healing their attachment to shame, people pleasing, & perfectionism.
Click to schedule a free consult!
Meg Smithson, Life Coach
Meg coaches women by identifying areas of self sabotage, helping them break up with the shame that usually accompanies that, and then shows them how to set boundaries around the emerging 2.0 version they want to become, and live that life, unapologetically.
Click to schedule a life coaching consultation with Meg.
