Repair, revive, & refresh your relationships

Iva Nasr

“Derrick and Megan facilitated a radical romance workshop through the Mankind Project. That particular gathering was too short for the depth and richness that these two beautiful beings have to offer in knowledge, experience, and radiance.

Our communities more than ever need their glory, guidance, and service. Their skillset and qualifications are more than apparent. They demonstrate so scenery, love, radical honesty, intimacy, courage, faith, and creative vision.

And, they do it all in good humor and with plenty of exercises and takeaways. All in all, I walked away encouraged and empowered to continue my journey of love and being me in this life. I enjoyed listening to others too. A code of honor and sacredness drew hearts and stories to the center of the circle.

Cheers and love, Derrick and Meg.”

- Iva Nasr

Mikaela

“I had been cheated on, lied to, played, used so I was not in a good spot at all! Started the course single! My relationship is a strong 8 now. My bf and I actually talk now and hold each other accountable. We are open about our past and have continued to push forward together as a unit. 

My biggest takeaway was stopping the passive aggression. If I don’t say and voice how I feel I will lash out in ways that do not align with my values. What I love about the teaching was the “ no pressure “ approach. I could go at this on my own pace and that made me feel at ease and comfortable. 

I did the course by myself because I was single first and in the middle of a breakup but as I went through the course and was able to repair my relationship because I worked on me first! 

 The course certainly repaired my relationship. I got to learn things about myself that were going to continue to hinder my relationship and once I worked on those and put God first in my relationship... we next level now!! 

I was not a relationship person before so this was my first course for my first serious relationship. I think what made it different for me was having two people who actually set an amazing example of how true love manifests.  Your relationship doesn’t have to look like theirs in fact 99% of it won’t. But once they teach you how YOU show and receive love YOUR relationship will begin to flourish. 

Meg is a movement by herself but THEY are a FORCE when they’re together!!! Thank Ne-yo for the wording there but there is no other way to describe it. 

This course is for anyone who needs to learn how to love correctly. Love God. Love yourself, then show up better for everybody and anything else!”

- Mikaela (single before the course & in a serious relationship now)

Laura & Mitch

“We have been together since 2011 and married since 2013. We met through mutual friends. This course has helped us to be more aware of, respectful towards, and tolerant of our differences to be better partners to each other and better parents to our beautiful boys. 

Our relationship was a 3 because of a lot of anger and resentment. We had a lot of difficulty communicating, and difficulty with forgiveness from past issues. We are now a 7 because we are focusing on each other's needs and communication styles instead of just our own.  A big take-away for us is that each of our primary needs is different from the other person. We are focusing on how to meet the other person’s needs using their communication style and love language instead of trying to use our own preferred style.

We really appreciated how they lovingly tease each other and play together. We also appreciated the personal examples they provided. We did the course separately and then came together to talk about it, as well as had couples coaching with Meg & Derrick. It all helped us better communicate by looking at situations through the other person’s eyes. 

This course was very realistic and had manageable expectations.  We have done courses in the past where there was a lot of boring material with 30 questions each lesson.  As full-time working parents, it was challenging to devote that much “formal” time to each lesson.  We do much better talking to each other and using questions more as prompts to guide conversation.

The passion that each of you have is so evident in every lesson. You play up each other’s strengths and fill in the weaknesses.  There is no denying how much you care and respect each other! This course is beneficial for anyone trying to improve their communication with their partner, especially if you have faced a lot of challenging and hurtful situations in the past. It would also be great for someone who is single to learn more about themselves and their preferred communication style and deal breakers in a relationship.  It is also helpful to learn how your past has shaped you and what that means for future relationships.”

- Laura & Mitch (married for 7 years at the time of the course & coaching)

Libby

“At the start of the course, we were a 5. It was new and exciting but headed down hill after the honeymoon phase was over. We were both getting tired of all the drama. At the end, we were a 9 because my expectations of the purpose of the relationship, the inner workings, and communication tools have helped me understand what’s happening. It helps me ebb and flow through life’s changes. 

Something that really helped was the fuel tanks. I can look at my partner and meet some of his needs by assessing his fuel tanks. (Since we didn’t do the course together I started paying more attention to his non verbal communication which helped a lot & it’s giving me great conversation points to talk with the kids around dating. Talking about values and goals, character etc). Understanding the other has different values and goals and learning how to compromise was also big. 

I loved the mixed media which is so helpful and ability to speak and ask questions. The Facebook groups, messaging etc has been so helpful. I also loved having both sides, masculine and feminine perspectives. I appreciate how organized and to the point you both were and how you made space for each other. This is for anyone in or wanting better relationships.”

- Libby, divorced and now dating, single mother of 7

Sarah & Tyler

“My husband and I dated in middle school and then reconnected after college. We started dating in 2012 and have been married since 2014. My husband and I feel like our relationship was a 7 out of 10 prior to this course. We had good communication and have evolved and tried to adapt over the years as we each grow. Afterwards I feel like we are a 9 out of 10. We will always have room to grow as a couple as we continue to change as adults. We’ve definitely improved our communication and understanding of where each other is coming from, then we did before this course.

This course helped us address parts of our lives that have shaped us into who we are today. Some of those things occurred before we were in each other’s lives and didn't understand how some of those things can be barriers or difficulties for the other to understand how it impacts our perspective. This caused us to have conversations that aren’t fun to have but needed to happen to better our relationship and understanding of one another.

I love the multitude of different researchers and studies you brought into this course. It helps with validity and reliable information, which increased my trust and value into the course. You both definitely brought up ideas I was familiar with but some that were new and very enlightening to me personally as well as my relationship with my husband.

We did it individually and then came together to share our ideas and thoughts. Surprisingly, there were times when we had similar thoughts and wants that we wanted to change which made it an easier adjustment. However, it also helped point out assumptions we may have made or helped us gain a deeper insight to something we didn’t realize had so much depth to it before. 

We can’t always see everything from our thoughts, feelings and life experiences. Sometimes we think that what makes us feel loved or happy is not what the other needs. Sometimes we have to consider doing something because it makes the other person happy and we love them. Sometimes we have to fully say what we mean or want and don’t assume the other can read our mind. Keep a balanced life, it’s easy to allow something to overwhelm one part of our life and it can offset everything else.

I love how the Relationship Revolution brings in outside resources and studies. As being someone who likes research based interventions, this helps bring more to the course. Although you may not be trained therapists, I feel like this course brought great quality and reflection for even those that have been trained in therapy. I would definitely recommend it to others and have.

Meg, I love how you can connect with the insecure and people pleaser audience. I feel like everyone has had these feelings at some point but is so relatable and how we often live to please others but then aren’t happy ourselves. Derrick,you related more in line with my husband, hard working, independent, proud and determined (Meg not that you weren’t) but this helped show my husband this course wasn’t just for broken couples. Everyone has their deficits or areas they could improve upon regardless of who you are.

This course is for anyone! I do wish I could have done this in my early twenties as I feel it would have saved me years of heartache and self-realization. Some of what is in this course I had learned due to being in the mental health field, but would have been great to get all in one place.

- Sarah & Tyler Deaton 

Libby Wolefert

“Meg and Derrick are a dynamic couple that embody what they teach. Their ability to engage the audience and provide realistic takeaways is still helping me, both personally and in my relationships.”

- Libby Wolefert

Devon & Tamaya

“We were at a 5, prior to the course & definitely needed work. After the course our Relationship went to a 9 definitely. We’re not perfect but there’s always room for improvement. We learned that you have to understand yourself before you try to understand your spouse or your loved one. Deep down in the inside of each other there is so much to figure out in life.

 Everything we learned was so real and we actually took the time to dig deep inside of each other and really learn from each other. The bigger details, and saw the bigger picture. 

 We did the course together and separate when we didn’t have time to do it together.

It’s definitely made us grow stronger and closer than ever.This relationship course was different because it was super easy to understand the exercises that can be done with your spouse & they were super easy and fresh, helping us get over some of our hurdles.

 We loved how they both took turns to explain their side of everything. You could tell they loved doing it. They enjoyed it and we enjoyed listening.The course was for me, but I was able to get my Girl to join me in the long run.”

- Devon & Tamaya (a young, unmarried couple)

Adinda

 “Through the course I did get to recognize some things that I could have done differently in my marriage to maybe help many years ago when I started seeing poor patterns. I did the course solo because even though I am dating a gentleman, I wanted the course to be about me and learning about myself more.  Learning how to approach a new relationship in a healthy manner and not allow my past to define my future.

I have found myself in some of the lowest parts of my life trying to find my worth again and the course helped me to start slowly finding it again through loving who I am.  Not allowing what others think of me and what I have gone through to affect what I believe about my true self. The course also helped me in my new relationship to not self sabotage it based on what I went through with my last relationship. (I have come close to self sabotage based on allowing my past to affect my current and I've gone back to the course multiple times to realize how to stop these patterns).

I’m learning more about myself as an adult and knowing how to fight fairly, make relationship goals, & to not allow the past to determine how to move forward.

You guys are so real! I love how you both are so down to earth non-judgmental and just tell it how it is. I enjoyed all of the videos very much! The course really opened up my eyes to toxic relationship issues that I have gone through and how to prevent them in the future.

This course took the approach of 2 people who have gone through their own relationship storms and found themselves on the other side....healthy, happy and glowing.  The other relationship advice I have found in the past is from people who may have never gone through what I have and just have a degree to give advice. Counseling is a very beneficial aspect of life however I have found in the past that some counselors are only able to help based on their experiences and they may not always have gone through the relationship storms that I have.

I love Meg's down to earth love for others. I love how she gives advice and is so positive but at the same time relatable to others. She didn't go through her own relationshi* to not be able to really understand some dynamics of others. She has been a breath of fresh air helping.  I love Derrick's upbeat personality and how he would just tell it how it is.

Together you guys make an outstanding couple to really help others with their issues. You are relatable and positive.  It's fantastic!! 

This course is for absolutely everyone!  For the already happily marrieds, the single people, the ones going through relationship issues. Those who haven't never been married and those who have been married a long time.  I feel everyone could really benefit from this course in different ways!

Matthew and I met online through mutual friends of ours. We've been officially dating since May 23, 2020.  We will be together a year this May and I would say we have talked a lot about our future together.  He is the person I never knew I needed in my life.  He is patient, loving, caring and treats me better than I have ever been treated by another man.  We have had a couple of arguments in our time of dating and it's amazing to see how we both are able to talk through the arguments without issues.  With my ex, that was never how it was.  The arguments would become explosive and my ex would break things because of his anger issues.  So Matthew is a breath of fresh air.  He adores my kids and my kids adore him.  He has 2 older sons who are 16 and 17 and a younger son who is 6 so my son and daughter who are 7 and 5 fit in well with his younger son. We have a very unique blended family and we are looking forward to many adventures together with them.”

- Adinda (divorced and dating now)